Summer Nights
We plan to get a hot tub in our own garden, but for various reasons that hasn’t happened yet. In our own garden we’d be able to get naked and be just a little naughty.…
All the Memes
We’re down to just a few meme’s at the moment, but at times over the years there’s almost been one for every day of the week. I thought I’d take a look back through my…
Living life and enjoying it
One of the most amazing things about being part of this relationship has been the opportunities I’ve been given to start living my life and enjoying it. Plus, doing it in a way I’d never…
Kith and Kin (Thoughts on family)
CW: This post is about illness, death and dying “Family isn’t something that’s supposed to be static, or set. People marry in, divorce out. They’re born, they die. It’s always evolving, turning into something else.” ― Sarah…
Jealousy
“You can only be jealous of someone who has something you think you ought to have yourself.” ― Margaret Atwood, The Handmaid’s Tale “It is so easy to believe that you can share a partner with another. To…
Intensity
At the end of my relationship with S we often barely spoke for weeks, let alone see each other. The level of intensity with this new man was welcome and invigorating. During the ‘getting to…
New Horizons
I definitely didn’t hang around. Nor did I shed a tear which demonstrated that it was time to move on. Two new horizons. From Feb 1 2014 “i joined alt.com quite a while ago, but…
Getting Dumped
Not once, but twice. As I’ve mentioned before in this series, and at other times, S was a man with a bucket list. He saw me as an opportunity to fulfil some of the items…
Found out
Carelessness found me out in November 2012 just 7 months into the affair with S. The irony is that I hadn’t been able to see much of S and had been chatting to a different…
Eroticism
“I want eroticism mixed with love, and deep love one does not experience often.” ― Anaïs Nin Reading back over those early posts it is clear I was looking for something that had been missing from…