Looking back on 2021
This is the 4th year I’ve written one of these posts. To be honest it’s as much for my benefit as it might be for anyone who happens along. 2021 hasn’t been the best year…
Am I the only one who knows me?
“I am the sole author of the dictionary that defines me” Zadie Smith There was a time when I really think my true self was hidden from most people. A time when rather than tell…
The magic of water
“If there is magic on this planet, it is contained in water” Loren Eitsely There is something magic and often beautiful about the bodies of water we find around us. Trouble is sometimes we have…
Making memories
“Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment, until it becomes a memory” Dr Seuss We take lots of photos of the places we go to. Mainly to be honest of the beauty…
Sex without love and love without sex
“Sex without love is as hollow and ridiculous as love without sex” Hunter S Thomson Sex without love Sex can take place without love and love without sex. It doesn’t however need to be either…
Once is enough
“You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough” Mae West Next year it will be 10 years since I decided that there had to be more to life than the…
The vulnerability of submission
“Staying vulnerable is a risk we have to take if we want to experience connection” Brené Brown I have exposed the vulnerable side of myself as a submissive more than I ever did before. Within…
Writing and my love of stationery
“Between my finger and my thumb the squat pen rests; snug as a gun.” – Seamus Heaney I’m not sure about the gun bit, but I certainly love the feel of a pen between my…
Life is good, though not very sexy
I’ve fallen out of love with my blog a bit. Struggling to find anything new to say I’ve decided to keep quiet. With no photos to share, I’ve decided not to join in with Sinful…
Thoughts on Desire
“To burn with desire and keep quiet about it is the greatest punishment we can bring on ourselves” – Federico Garcia Lorco This is a post of two halves. About the desire to blog and…