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Relationships

“Oh what a complicated web we weave,  when first we practise to deceive!” – Sir Walter Scott Around a year ago, i was feeling particularly bored with my life. i was frustrated that as i… 

Grieving for a relationship lost

For the first time in weeks, hubby and i resided in the same house, and did things together this weekend. He is now away more than i am, but apparently it doesn’t count since he… 

Is it worth it?

There are going to be 3 distinct phases to this weekend. The first which has already started is to do with preparation and about coping with hubby’s feelings about it all. The second will be… 

This weekend

Will probably help to define the rest of my life. It has been 6 weeks or so since i last saw Sir. Since then, home life has involved hubby and i living in some kind… 

Ups and Downs

i think that best describes how things are right now. Hubby and i have had a number of really good days, but any time i am lulled into the idea that this will be plain… 

Time to myself

For the first time in about a week I have time to breathe, to relax and to do as I wish unwatched. Hubby has gone out with friends and won’t be back till morning. It… 

Bad to worse

There is no kinkiness in my life right now, just a life trying to pacify hubby and the need to sort out a job. I work for the Health Service in England and we are… 

Struggling on

My access to the computer and particularly anything involving typing is restricted right now to times when I am alone. If my aim in all this had been to make hubby notice me, to make…