Being in the wrong
“Try not to apologise. When you are in your role, you are doing as you wish.That also means you “can’t go wrong” and that you should never apologise for what you said or did“ My first Blog days of…
Relocation
In summer 2018 I moved to live with Master. This relocation brought to an end 27 years living in that particular home. A place I’d moved to as a young mother with the man I’d…
Ownership and possession
I’m behind with the blogging A-Z but for a good reason. We’ve been away for the weekend, staying with friends and delayed our return until yesterday afternoon. I’m pleased to say I’ve been on some…
Kith and Kin (Thoughts on family)
CW: This post is about illness, death and dying “Family isn’t something that’s supposed to be static, or set. People marry in, divorce out. They’re born, they die. It’s always evolving, turning into something else.” ― Sarah…
Friendships and relationships
This week’s No True way offers the following theory in the management of a power exchange relationship: Make a plan how to correct your mistake. Often it just means avoiding the thing that lured you…
Jealousy
“You can only be jealous of someone who has something you think you ought to have yourself.” ― Margaret Atwood, The Handmaid’s Tale “It is so easy to believe that you can share a partner with another. To…
Found out
Carelessness found me out in November 2012 just 7 months into the affair with S. The irony is that I hadn’t been able to see much of S and had been chatting to a different…
Eroticism
“I want eroticism mixed with love, and deep love one does not experience often.” ― Anaïs Nin Reading back over those early posts it is clear I was looking for something that had been missing from…
Control
“Freedom is the only worthy goal in life. It is non by disregarding things beyond our control” Epictetus Back in 2012 and 2013 I wrote a lot about submission and my new found desire to…
Before
“I can see myself before myself— A being through dark scenery.” ― Dejan Stojanovic, Circling: 1978-1987 For a who’s who click here. It’s difficult to look back and see the me I was before April 2012. Indeed…