Five Things About Orgasms
This week is proving to be a busy one. Yesterday I devoted my day off to spring cleaning and to exercise, but that meant no time or energy for blogging. So, I’m really behind and…
Blogging A-Z Challenge: Orgasms
I don’t remember when I discovered the pleasure of orgasms, but I wasn’t very young. Probably in my late thirties or early forties. My ex wasn’t really into giving pleasure, it was all about him.…
Forced to orgasm
So much is written about denial. Not being allowed to come is a major part of many D/s dynamics. The need that exists within in the person being denied, and being edged and then denied…
Mindset
Our dynamic is about power, control and mind games. I say games, because to begin with it feels like it. Where someone is seeking to get you to conform to their way of thinking, to…
Faking orgasm
I’m pleased to say that I suggested this week’s Food for Thought prompt. A few weeks ago I read survey conducted by Kinkly.com on Faking Orgasms. The writers there had read a couple of other…
Female Chastity – Physical or Emotional
Over the past year or so my Kink of the Week post on female chastity has been one of the most frequently read on my blog. I admit to being fascinated by the concept of…
The disappearing orgasms
Early on in our relationship I wrote about the importance Master placed on giving me pleasure. That he loved me to orgasm and to orgasm a lot. While my orgasms have belonged to him from…
The rediscovery of my submission
Master reminded me on Friday night that we have hardly used my birthday present from last year. For various reasons I have ridden this beautiful toy only once or twice. It’s purchase dates back to…
Blogging A-Z Challenge: O
O is for orgasm I love to orgasm, who doesn’t? When it comes to permission to cum, it is rare that this is not granted. More and more, I need to be told to cum…