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Elust #152

I haven’t joined in with Elust for such a long time and wouldn’t have this time if Oz hadn’t messaged me to ask if he could include my post. Of course I was happy to… 

The beauty of trees

There is a certain elegance and beauty about the tree. It’s size and shape, how it looks in winter, unclothed, it’s leaves brown and shrivelled at its feet. The way in which the tiniest buds… 

Married!

It’s funny really. I’ve spent 37 of the last 40 years married, most of that time to the wrong person. Since Thursday 11th August (4 days ago) I’ve been married to my Mr Right. The… 

A new phase

It’s finally arrived. Tomorrow we won’t just be Master and slave but husband and wife, I feel we’re entering a new phase. Of course very little, maybe nothing will change. I’ll wear his ring as… 

Family stuff sometimes gets to me

There is a danger in trying to be all things to all people. Sometimes it leaves you upset and stressed. Sometimes too it gets in the way of enjoying special times, like your birthday. What’s… 

Sixty

Ten years ago when I was fifty, I wrote a post about being that age. My blog then was in it’s infancy and now it’s 10 years old. Where on earth did that decade go?… 

Being in the wrong

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“Try not to apologise. When you are in your role, you are doing as you wish.That also means you “can’t go wrong” and that you should never apologise for what you said or did“ My first Blog days of… 

Counting down

In 9 days we will married. Almost exactly because by the time I publish this post it will be after 3.30pm. I’m planning to get back to this blog over the coming days and weeks.… 

All in the contract

It’s not even August and I’m already writing again – go me! This week’s Kink of the Week is about contracts and since I found out I’ve been thinking a bit about this topic. Although… 

The Blog days of Summer

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It seems I’m going to need a meme to get me re-started and hopefully The Blog days of Summer will be it. After the past couple of months there are weeds growing in this space.…