Gifts
I started this post before Christmas and didn’t finish it. So, because I don’t want it to hang around for another year and because I want to participate in the Kink of the Week on…
Looking back on 2021
This is the 4th year I’ve written one of these posts. To be honest it’s as much for my benefit as it might be for anyone who happens along. 2021 hasn’t been the best year…
Welcome to Five Things
I’m excited to welcome you to the Five Things Meme. Each week on a Thursday I will publish a new prompt to get the creative (and other juices) flowing. The link-up will go live early…
Optimism of good things to come
Christmas (or other holiday times) can be difficult. Real life isn’t always about happy family gatherings. It can be about loneliness, sadness and drama. Over the past 10 or so years I’ve experienced all 3.…
Shield
I’m off out today. For the first time in almost 2 years we are off to a club (same club but not CMnf) for some fun. In celebration of this momentous event I’ve groomed myself…
Greatest Fears, Greatest Hopes
My progress through the 31 days of Self Reflection has been slow. But then my blogging progress has been pretty pedestrian. For large parts of the year, I’ve struggled with inspiration. Indeed at times I’ve…
Flash (of colour)
I was actually looking for butterflies while on a walk during summer last year. He never knows when he might get a quick flash and have a photo opportunity. He certainly always seems prepared. I’m…
Responsibility of the submissive?
This week’s No True Way prompt states that: It is a submissive’s responsibility to make sure the dominant (always) reaches orgasm. First of all let me state that I think that this is a load…
Picnic
The weather outside today is just horrible. Thankfully we don’t have snow and the wind isn’t too bad, unlike other parts of the country, it is wet, windy and very cold. That got me thinking…
Don’t try to break me down
CW This post discusses issues of consent non consent (CNC) within fiction and real life relationships This week’s no true way is about the concept that a dominant needs to break their submissive down. Supposedly…