Responsibility of the submissive?
This week’s No True Way prompt states that: It is a submissive’s responsibility to make sure the dominant (always) reaches orgasm. First of all let me state that I think that this is a load…
Don’t try to break me down
CW This post discusses issues of consent non consent (CNC) within fiction and real life relationships This week’s no true way is about the concept that a dominant needs to break their submissive down. Supposedly…
Am I the only one who knows me?
“I am the sole author of the dictionary that defines me” Zadie Smith There was a time when I really think my true self was hidden from most people. A time when rather than tell…
Are collars reusable?
Suddenly I feel more like writing. Yesterday I had a work report to write and felt better doing it while simultaneously writing a blog post. Today I’m on a day off work and thankfully haven’t…
August
We’ve been away from home for the entire month of August. For the first time ever I (we) am going to be away for almost another month; our ferry to England is booked for 29th…
What did he see in me?
Is it possible for a dominant to recognise a submissive at first sight? Using some kind of instinct? Indeed is the opposite true? Is it possible for a submissive to recognise a dominant from a…
Is stubbornness a bad thing?
This week’s No True way prompt is about stubbornness. Is this a bad thing in a submissive? I’m not sure being stubborn has anything to do with being submissive, it’s a character trait. A certain…
Light, Love and Loyalty
Just lately you are lucky if you get one post a week out of me. I struggle to find the words for my blog when I seem to write so many for work. Plus life…
The vulnerability of submission
“Staying vulnerable is a risk we have to take if we want to experience connection” Brené Brown I have exposed the vulnerable side of myself as a submissive more than I ever did before. Within…
Slaves don’t have limits
It’s a while since I wrote a No True Way post. Well anything at all really. Predictably after the flurry of activity that was the April blogging A-Z, I ran out of steam. Work is…