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How much control does the submissive have?

Many people say that it is the submissive that has all the power and control in a D/s relationship. After all, the decision to enter the relationship and to agree to comply to certain rules… 

Where the power lies

“Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.”  ~ Oscar Wilde In this post or semi lockdown world we are struggling in many ways. Not in terms of our overall… 

The Power

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Much of our sex happens in the morning. There are age related reasons for this, I think it is called ‘morning glory’. But also tiredness at the end of the day (mostly on my part… 

Horny on sunday

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Leads to Masturbation on Monday. This post is the narrative behind yesterday’s Sinful Sunday post. We had spent time painting, finishing off the walls in the hall and stairs that we had started before Christmas.… 

Controlled

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His control over this girl is often subtle rather than overt. This girl reads the blogs and fetlife posts of other submissives and slaves and can see that often their lives involve more in the…