Thoughts on January
CW. In this post I’m going to be very positive about January. If this upsets and offends then do move on. I won’t be offended. I think the main reason I used to hate January…
Author of my own life story
In the degree that we remember and retell our stories and create new ones, we become authors, the authorities of our own lives Sam Seen As I wrote recently, this blog documents quite a bit…
Winter and cold things
I don’t hate winter specifically because it’s cold. But because, unlike this morning it is often cloudy, dull and drab. For days and sometimes weeks on end we live in a kind of nothingness, that’s…
Submission and Feminism
This week’s No true way asks if it possible to be a submissive and a feminist. I’m pretty sure there are people out there who would be horrified at the idea that I have agreed…
Reflections on my week
I’m just back from my mum’s where I took this image after my shower this morning. Just two weeks in to the year and my reflections indicate that a positive picture continues. What’s more this…
Perseverance
I’ve decided that perseverance is my word for 2022. You see, I’m great at starting things with great enthusiasm, but not so good at seeing them through to the end. I’m no starter finisher people.…
Journals, Planners and Diaries
So, my new meme Five things is live with the first prompt: Journals, Planners and Diaries. I’m thrilled to have got it up and running and to have a couple of link ups in the…
Greatest Fears, Greatest Hopes
My progress through the 31 days of Self Reflection has been slow. But then my blogging progress has been pretty pedestrian. For large parts of the year, I’ve struggled with inspiration. Indeed at times I’ve…
Don’t try to break me down
CW This post discusses issues of consent non consent (CNC) within fiction and real life relationships This week’s no true way is about the concept that a dominant needs to break their submissive down. Supposedly…
Infidelity is nothing to be proud of
It’s 6 Months since I wrote one of these Obscene Ideas self reflection prompts. All that time I had stuff I could write about but kept putting this one off. I knew though that I’d…