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Mistakes are a necessary thing in life

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“Mistakes are the portals of discovery.” James Joyce Master is a big James Joyce fan and we have been together to see a few of his plays*. They are always interesting and thought provoking. I wondered where… 

Thinking about sex

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Brigit Delaney has relaunched her Erotic Journal Challenge meme. Making it a little more specific and also back to weekly. I’m keen to pick up on the challenge to write more and to make some… 

Soulmate

“A true soulmate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.” Elizabeth Gilbert When people told me… 

The lover and the love

“We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.” – Tom Robbins In the beginning I thought it was all about love. That amazing feeling you get when you are… 

I believe in destiny

Do you believe in destiny? That even the powers of time can be altered for a single purpose? From Dracula by Bram Stoker It’s funny, I thought my destiny was one thing, but it turned… 

Relationships

How apt to reach this stage right now. My relationships feature prominently on this blog and have since the beginning. A thread from the beginning was my relationship with my then husband. Over a long… 

Mind and body

During the course of this relationship I and we have had some amazing times. It is definitely the case that I have had more sex during the past 5 years than I had during the… 

Needing control from a far

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I am away for a few days on my own. I say on my own, but actually, although I am here on my own in the apartment, I am really with friends. Last night was… 

Random Sunday thoughts

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Though I haven’t necessarily articulated it in this way, I have often felt and said that finding my submission often makes me feel that the rug has been pulled from me. I know I am…