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Intensity

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At the end of my relationship with S we often barely spoke for weeks, let alone see each other. The level of intensity with this new man was welcome and invigorating. During the ‘getting to… 

New Horizons

I definitely didn’t hang around. Nor did I shed a tear which demonstrated that it was time to move on. Two new horizons. From Feb 1 2014 “i joined alt.com quite a while ago, but… 

The vulnerability of submission

“Staying vulnerable is a risk we have to take if we want to experience connection” Brené Brown I have exposed the vulnerable side of myself as a submissive more than I ever did before. Within… 

Only strong women need apply?

The No True Way prompt for this week is about the idea that submissives are strong independent women seeking a release. “Submission appeals to responsible, hard working and independent women, because it takes them to… 

How I have evolved over the years

The second self reflection prompt examines how I have evolved over time. The past year, five and ten years. As I mentioned in my last post, I am focusing on me as a submissive women… 

A sense of fear

This week’s prompt for No True Way relates to this newsletter that provides strategies for a play scene. One of which is creating a sense of fear to heighten the nervous system response of the… 

Thoughts on kneeling

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I’ve written a few times about kneeling, that well known symbol of submission. There are also a few images of me doing so, including the one above. That one is in a particular context that… 

How much control does the submissive have?

Many people say that it is the submissive that has all the power and control in a D/s relationship. After all, the decision to enter the relationship and to agree to comply to certain rules… 

The need for dominance

I thought I liked to be in charge. To have the final say, to get my own way. Well I do, but only up to a point. As an older sister I was bossy, and…