How I have evolved over the years
The second self reflection prompt examines how I have evolved over time. The past year, five and ten years. As I mentioned in my last post, I am focusing on me as a submissive women…
31 Days of Self Reflection – A series
The second Obscene Ideas workbook was released on Friday. This one focuses on self reflection. I’ve decided to strike before the ink on it is dry and start a new series of posts using the…
Question memes
Back in 2012 and 2013 there were great periods of time when I had little to write about. Having embarked upon an illicit affair with someone living 100 miles away, we weren’t able to see…
Fear
The Erotic Journal Challenge for October is Fear. I love that Brigit has gone for a month long theme and hope it is something she will continue. I love to join in with memes but…
When life gets in the way
Today’s 30 days of D/s question is about what happens when the trials of life get in the way of a dominant / submissive relationship. Like most couples, we have had our challenges. Stuff has…
When we are apart
Today’s 30 days of D/s post is about what happens to our dynamic when we are apart from each other. Until last summer there were days (and nights) most weeks when we were apart from…
Thinking about rules
I’ve written a few times recently about rules. In September for Food for Thought Friday I wrote about the rules of life and a little about my relationship. Then in May, for this series I…
Thoughts on pain
I struggle, even after all this time to understand my body’s reaction to pain. After all pain is meant to be a stimulus that warns us that things are not right, that we should take…
Introducing D/s into a vanilla relationship
This is something that I never did. When I started to read about Dominance and submission the one thing I knew deep down was that I didn’t want to try such a thing with my…
Issues of consent
Today’s topic on the 30 days of D/s is consent. I wrote a comprehensive post about consent and what it means to me for my A-Z of blogging in April (I for Informed Consent). I’m…