Safeword
You often read of slaves that have no limits and no safeword, but in essence I have both. As I wrote last time, Master takes care of my limits (though these were negotiated). I do…
My Limits
When I came into this relationship I did so with few preconceived ideas. Though I’d been in another D/s type relationship there was little I’d come across that I didn’t particularly like. The key for…
Negotiating a power exchange relationship
At the beginning of our relationship there was a certain element of excitement. At times it felt we were throwing ourselves into the situation, pushing boundaries. We met at weekends, there were play scenes and…
Title: slave
This is day 3 of the Loving BDSM 30 days of Kink – Titles and labels. I identify as slave. One of the joys of being Master’s slave is the opportunity it provides me to…
Thoughts on submission
This is the second post in the Loving BDSM series 30 days of D/s. Does a submissive have certain behaviors? Over the past few years I have met many submissive people, in real life and…
30 days of D/s
I have had the great pleasure in meeting Kayla and John from Loving BDSM at Eroticon. They both provide some excellent resources about kink, BDSM and D/s relationships through their websites and podcasts. So it…
Submission
I have written a lot about submission on this blog. The whole thing started with my discovery that I was a submissive person. That my need to please others, to lead a structured and orderly…
Finishing off the 30 days of kink
If there was one thing about myself that I would love to change it would probably be to see things through to the end. I am pretty good with ideas, and I am very good…
30 Days of Kink: Days 16 – 19
What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally? The most difficult thing must be the need to be quite so guarded about the way we…
30 days of kink days 12-15
Unlike day 11, 12-15 lend themselves to a multiple post, so here goes. Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had. We love to people watch (that goes for kinky and non…